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    Dreamer @ heart yet I'm too earthy to be up in the clouds for too long... capa
    female from Namibia
    Joined dxpnet on May 30, 2010.
    I don't think he wants you around...
    I don't think he wanted to see you...
    Ontop of it all he is going through, you are always around, as you say, to 'support' him, but it's STILL all about you. You talk about him like he owes you something...
    Kinda like 'okay since I did this and this for you, you should do this for me!' Its not about that. I feel like you are suffocating him and are basically making all these demands.
    Love is not about being owed or entitled to something which is what you feel, now that you are not receiving the attention you feel you are entitled to, you wana leave.
    You know what, you should leave.
    Love and giving are supposed to have no conditions, no extra terms and you my friend don't love him unconditionally, you have certain conditions he must meet.
    To get into your shoes, I would also be very upset if my bf cancelled on me last minute to talk to anyone! But the focus of hurt would not be 'AFTER ALL I DID FOR HIM,ThIS IS HOW HE REPAYS ME??'
    It would be focused on ' I've missed you terribly throughout the month and now I won't get to see you?' But in the end, you calm down about it, and you understand.
    Its as if he has a debt to pay everytime he comes to see you, its how you feel, and caps pick it up, its all written in the way you do things for him.
    He knows you are not doing it from the heart. Leave him and let him be.
    Since your precious loving self has been taken for granted, leave.