Me: female
Physical:
I like the Clark Kent type. Short dark hair, tall, glasses, well dressed, yummmm .... I LOVE men in suits.
Rougher looking men can be attractive too like Leonard Cohen.
Mannerisms:
Charming, engaging, thoughtful i.e. notices when your drink is finished and gets you another, brilliant with speech, thought, and dress. I love very successfull, confident men. *sigh*
Turn-offs:
Crass, rude, blunt men put him a pair of sweatpants and stained t-shirt, give him a pot belly and you have my nightmare.
I also don't like men I who mentally can't keep up, are too easy to figure out, and have bad manners. If you have the social grace of a cow, you aren't for me.