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    Joined dxpnet on December 06, 2012.
    I've burned a few bridges. A few have been rebuilt over the years. But there's a handful that I refuse to let be rebuilt. It's that mentality "fool me once shame on me, fool me twice shame on you".... except because I'm a cancer it's more like "fool me once, twice, three, four times shame on me, try to keep getting away with stuff and watch that bridge burn!".... I'll give people 3,4,5 chances but if they KEEP doing things to hurt me I will finally put my foot down.
    Heres an example: This girl I knew we use to be SO close. When we became friends it was like overnight. Instantaneous. We were latched onto each other for a couple of months. And then we both happened to be together when we met a new group of guys. I had my eye on one of them because he was cute. Of COURSE she did too. But he latched onto me (another instantaneous relationship but this one was romantic with a guy). She did EVERYTHING to try and keep us apart. She told me that his friends told her that he was a player. She threw temper tantrums about me hanging out with him. She HATED it. Well when she started to sabotage things for me at work (we worked at the same place) that's when I'd finally had enough and stopped talking to her. But being the water sign that I am I reconnected with her a few years later and hung out a little bit with her. Well after celebrating her birthday with her I kept trying to make plans with her. She would make them and then totally reneg on them the day of. The straw that broke the camels back was when I made plans with her to meet at her house and when i was driving THERE she wouldn't answer calls or texts. I was outside her house for a few minutes when I'd finally had enough. I left and then of course an hour later she leaves me a voicemail with some excuse as to why she wasn't there, yada yada. I snapped. I went off on her about being a fair weather friend. She never apologized, never called me back. Never heard from her again. She was one of those types of people who would "chameleon" to the people she was around so that she would fit in at the time. She had NO identity of her own. She didn't try to just steal my boyfriend either. I also found out that our boss at the company we had worked at together had slept with her WHEN HE WAS MARRIED!!! She also tried to steal another girls boyfriend. ALL this time by the way, SHE had her own boyfriend! Just absolutely toxic person. BRIDGE BURNED and never looked back!