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    Joined dxpnet on December 06, 2012.
    Posted by ninjafish
    Hmm I think you need to deal with building your own self esteem up first. You don't "need" anyone by your side. I know I'm neither male nor leo, but I'm pretty certain your neediness would turn a lot of people off. I think you should try to strengthen internal elements first.


    You said you want to but you are unsure how to?... the best way to build self esteem is to do things you WANT to do, but have been too scared, too busy, to ANYTHING to do....
    One of the FIRST things I can think of that helped build my self esteem was being in marching band. (WHAT??? You were in marching band and you BUILT self esteem???).... YES....
    Imaging having to carry a heavy trumpet, play it correctly, step and march at the right times and right moves all in front of a HUGE stadium full of people. I did not care what people thought because I LOVED the feeling of playing and performing and marching. It felt like a cohesive unit of people and I was part of it. (I should've joined the military)....
    The second time I got a HUGEEEE self esteem boost when I was TERRIFIED of learning how to ride a motorcycle, afraid I'd make a fool of myself.... so I forced myself into the lessons and came out in my class as one of the best riders.... not to mention I achieved getting my motorcycle license! smile
    Go out and do your own thang. Find your own interests and hobbies and IMMERSE yourself in them. The more you immerse yourself in what you love the more people will be drawn to you for DOING what you love!