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    "Give me a good book, coffee and soft music _??'"
    32 years old from New York City
    Joined dxpnet on November 23, 2012.
    Posted by moongirljj
    I definitely agree with the above poster...
    A Virgo man can be critical and even controlling but the moment you become too nice, too accommodating or start bending to his will, he loses all respect for you and then he loses all attraction towards you.
    I am a very strong independent woman, but I'm seriously considering leaving my Virgo guy because I'm so tired of the constant battle. Me trying to keep my autonomy and him trying to control me, I know he was attracted to me for my strength and for the fact that I wouldn't change who I was for him. But it also makes life so difficult. They can be the most loving men you could ever imagine or the most heartless.
    Don't start doing everything to please him, he will toss you away like yesterdays garbage for a more fiery woman. They love the challenge and once you let them mold you or try to hard to please them the challenge is done.
    If you want to keep him hooked, be slightly bitchy, refuse to change anything about your style , your habits or your life style . Keep him guessing, be sweet and loving one day and too busy for him the next, he will eat out of your hand but in a year you will likely look back like me, realize you are exhausted.
    I love my V-guy to pieces but he blows every little thing up in to a mountain, yet never see's any faults in himself and he is absolutely smothering, I have to answer to him constantly. It was fun before I had deep feelings for him, because I could just shrug it off, but now its a nightmare.


    Never do anything to kiss up to as Virgo, we will use that kindness to control you. Virgos like people .with a strong mind and know what they are about. We are not saying you dolled up for us, but don't change your hair or style for us. The minute you start kissing Our arse, we will lose interest n any attraction for you. We might try to control you, but if u reason with us we will learn to compromise with you. The worst you can do to a cirgo is constantly kissing our arse, font encourage our controlling habits, you will create a monster. Instead spoil us withaffection n loyally.
    Kissing up to as Virgo is like giving a Child too much sugar, nothing good can come of it, n sooner are later we will grow clid of it.