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    Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
    I understand this perfectly. There's a risk factor involved and the fact that your first union didn't work only adds to the insecurity. First marriage, you think forever and when forever is shorter than you think and you are left with the aftermath of splitting everything and how it can get nasty, you certainly remember and consider all these things before jumping back into the frying pan!
    Any asset or finance from that first marriage, is thought to keep you living on the life style you got accompanied to and possible to help the children on their feet from that union...complicating this with a 3rd party and possible extras who could take a hand in it within a few short years is definitely not to be taken lightly..
    Some go right in blindly, I am one of those friends that will always look out for me and my own first and foremost and if the sacrifice is no second marriage then so be it! It doesn't mean you can't love again.