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    Joined dxpnet on October 09, 2013.
    to give you some insight dofacc, we started out 8 months ago with a very beautiful relationship, it was amazing and we were a perfect match, we fit so well together, he asked me to marry him, he asked me to move in, and then he had to leave for work which took him away for 3 months, while away he experience a tragedy with one of his coworkers and then he and i kind of had a disagreement and the next thing i knew he shut down and shut me out and told me he needed time to himself, i didn't understand that about aries at the time so i didn't understand why he needed time and why he would not talk to me for a month, when he finally came home he called me and we sat down and talked about everything and he asked me if we could take it slow and be friends i said i would try, we continued to talk and see each other but i wanted more than just friends, it was hard for me going from where we were to being just friends, eventually we ended up being back in relationship status and him and i professing our love for each other but he was different, things he did was different, his actions were different but i loved this man so i didn't say anything to him for fear of him shutting me out again, he was stressing about his work so i would be creative and try and ease his stress level, plan trips just to get away (which i ended up going alone)i tried to do everything possible to make him feel and know i was in his corner, just last month i planned a trip, he was excited about going but then he said at the last min he wouldn't be able to go because he wouldn't be back from work, then on the day i was leaving he called me that morning saying he would be back that day but he was too tired to go (i was pissed, but that wouldn't be the first sign to set my alarm off )mind you he had been gone a month this time, then after i returned home i still hadn't seem him for 2 weeks, either he was stressed out, really busy with work , getting off late, it was always something and i started feeling like they were all just excuses, finally i was to my breaking point and i had a talk with him about how i was feeling about everything and asked him to be honest with me, he told me he loved me and wants to be with me but he's just been so busy and stressed and i asked when were we going to see each other it has been almost 2 months and that i missed him, well after that talk i get the call that he needed time again, he really and truly loved me but he needed time to get his head right, i lost i