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    Mrs Aqua
    female from Small Town, USA
    Joined dxpnet on January 25, 2012.
    Just be patient. Caps are a lot slower than you Aries. There is a lot of factors to consider in your case. He could be cautious because you are still techinically married and it sounds a little as if you might be wanting to work that out. So, he's going to be cool and observe, see what shakes out. Don't give up on him, but understand his viewpoint too.
    Hope that helps. I was still separated (divorce papers filed - took us 1 1/2 - 2 years to finalize our divorce) when I started dating my aqua. He was a little leery. But, as soon as that divorce was granted and final, our relationship changed drastically. Come to find out, he was just being cautious in case I got back with my ex.
    Just build the friendship. And caps get distracted/busy/working/family/etc and we don't always contact every day when a relationship is new. The first couple of months, every three days is fine. Now, once it becomes exclusive, that's a different story! I expect daily communication then! smile