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  • Posted by cheekyfaerie
    Posted by Nala13
    I hope you are a thick skinned Aries. I doubt you will get much help here, just people telling you to go home and work on your marriage which may or may not be bad advice.



    Yes and no. If she wants to actively try to be with another guy, she needs to get her affairs in order, but I'm pretty sure she already knows that.
    Aries,
    You were honest with the Cap about your situation. That makes you a decent person. You also just used your husband in the past tense. Sounds like you know it's over, but you feel you should try for his sake. Or maybe you still have kids at home. Whatever. If you're a decent person and you've still managed to get in this deep with somebody else and your marriage has already been on the rocks for a while, it sounds like you've already left. Mentally, at least.
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    You are bang on correct about me. I think I mentally left our marriage a few years ago but have stayed because my husband, who is VERY needy, is scared shitless to be on his own and I have stayed for his sake. Our son is an adult and on his own.
    The capricorn man I have met whom, like I said, I've been totally honest with, is still in my life and our relationship is getting deeper. Time will tell. I would like to leave this marriage but also want to make sure my husband doesn't do anything nutty which is quite possible. Feeling very stuck.