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    Joined dxpnet on April 09, 2010.
    You're questions are heavily loaded.. so I'll answer them with that in mind
    1) cancers are private people over things others would think are no big deal. well, that privacy is a big deal to us so if I do share with you it's because I trust you and feel comfortable being completely open. I will not share with someone because they think I should or because that's what "couples do."
    The more you push on my privacy, the tighter I lock up and the longer it will take me to open up to you in the future... if at all. Somethings you may never know and it doesn't matter if you're an open book... I'm not.
    2) If my privacy has caused an argument, I will walk away because I've said my peace and I may need to go and separate my feelings from my partners. I may apologize for causing stress and/or hurt feelings but I won't apologize for being private if I feel the invasion is unwarranted.
    I would be suspicious of a partner that doesn't trust me enough for me to have my own space/interests/things.