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    Posted by Este8
    Posted by MoonArtist
    No, the warning should be this (and my mom did warn my ex): treat with love and respect, and above all, be loyal. If you backstab, betray and habitually abuse or take advantage of, you will have your heart ripped out and crushed before your eyes, then left alone in your own sad misery with no backward glance.
    As for what happens to the love? Well, if someone I love betrays me, abuses me, and otherwise shows that I have no reason to trust or love that person, I'll simply burn it to ash, turn it to hate, and not give one flying fuck about that person ever again.


    I love the emotional honesty of this statement. There's a fine line between love and hate and the line is loyalty. It's knowing you can count on your partner in a fox hole and not just when the times are good. We say anger is toxic but sometimes its better to angry and resolved than fooling ourselves that we've forgiven them when we're really lingering on and trying to manipulate the situation. At least anger is cathartic. And it forces us off the fucking fence. I hate sitting on fences. Maybe that's a Cardinal thing?
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    It's exactly that. Obviously, hatred that turns a person to doing horrible things to another is completely wrong, and letting it corrode self is not good, either. At some point the process moves out of extreme hate, and into some sort of dislike, but mostly just meh. I don't like sitting on fences, either. It's a horrible feeling to be conflicted in what should be done. Unfortunately, some decisions aren't easy, and sometimes both choices aren't exactly good choices. For instance, divorce vs. stay for the kids. The kids get hurt, either way, because they don't like divorce, but staying in a really bad relationship isn't good for them, either.