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    Posted by phEnyxBull876
    Posted by Este8
    Posted by MoonArtist
    No, the warning should be this (and my mom did warn my ex): treat with love and respect, and above all, be loyal. If you backstab, betray and habitually abuse or take advantage of, you will have your heart ripped out and crushed before your eyes, then left alone in your own sad misery with no backward glance.
    As for what happens to the love? Well, if someone I love betrays me, abuses me, and otherwise shows that I have no reason to trust or love that person, I'll simply burn it to ash, turn it to hate, and not give one flying fuck about that person ever again.


    I love the emotional honesty of this statement. There's a fine line between love and hate and the line is loyalty. It's knowing you can count on your partner in a fox hole and not just when the times are good. We say anger is toxic but sometimes its better to angry and resolved than fooling ourselves that we've forgiven them when we're really lingering on and trying to manipulate the situation. At least anger is cathartic. And it forces us off the fucking fence. I hate sitting on fences. Maybe that's a Cardinal thing?


    Not at all, I wholeheartedly believe in holding grudges. Once you're dead to me, you're any other stranger on the street... Death stare. And if i do have to continue to deal with you regularly, dont think it'll EVER be the same. You're a piece of dirt.
    Any person who can't hold a good grudge is just weak and fickle. When someone says, getting angry and holding grudges takes so much energy... Um, no, being fake takes way more.
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    Oh, this is true! I've been the queen of holding grudges! I think, though, that I want to turn that energy into a less caustic form. I'll never trust or like that person again, but I'd like to have less of a visceral reaction to him or her. It's hard to ignore someone when your first reaction is to instantly flip them off while giving an evil grin.