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    Sun Cancer/Leo Moon Leo Aquarius rising Venus in Cancer
    female from Part of the commonwealth
    Joined dxpnet on October 11, 2012.
    Posted by RoseTheTaurus
    Insecurity and Ego do not mix very well, their whole being is driven by fear and narcissism. It's easy to feel bad for them when you realize that they are scared ALL THE TIME. They are constantly afraid others will see their insecurities and their weaknesses. So they bully, they rage, they condescend. An ex cancer friend with a Leo stellium always reminded me of this lesson from lifeguard training. Basically, when attempting to save a drowning person, be aware that in their fear they will try and save themselves by pushing you under water. You can't really fault them this fear, but obviously don't let yourself be drowned...actually I feel this way about all water signs, now that I think about it.lol


    ^I agree with this. I think for many cancer-leo cuspies depending on how dominant Leo is, it is extremely difficult to accept the insecure vulnerable cancer side. Deep insecurity shows itself in many, usually obnoxious ways.
    It doesn't need to be that way though.
    Personally I prefer to cover my insecurities with jokes and silliness rather than nastiness but that took some maturity on my part.
    I also pride myself on being able to accept my flaws, to myself and others.
    That took many dedicated years of working on myself, and becoming a person I like.
    Acceptance of ones flaws is not an easy task for the cancer-leo.
    I cannot possibly describe how embarrassing my watery emotions were, to my cancer side growing up. I HATED that part of me, I wanted to bury it 6 feet under. I didn't want ANYONE to know I had a vulnerable side, an exploitable side and so I mistakenly confused nastiness for strength.
    This is very likely what your much hated cancer-leo boss is doing.
    It's no excuse.
    I'm sorry you're dealing with that personality type, it's a real pain.