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  • Posted by xy
    Posted by CarRiderGirl
    Posted by xy
    He's torn between the two (you vs. himself)
    Have you talked to him?
    Do you want to stay?


    Yes, we talk everyday but it's minimal contact. We don't connect as much as before. We did yesterday, for a short moment but it didn't last. He went back to work. I went back to my stuff. He's staying at a friend's until he figure out what he wants.
    I do want to stay, I just don't know what to do anymore. He hates talking about me. Yet his friends and family are not helping, constantly asking about us.




    So there's a TINY part on both sides that wants to stay in the relationship.
    Is this "down phase" unbearable? Can you two live with it for awhile until all possible solutions are exhausted? What's bothering him?
    Have you tried writing to each other?
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    Bothering him: That he's not 100% free to do everything he wants. He wants an open relationship. I said yes, but when it comes to keep some ground rules, he doesn't like them. Anything that's link to respecting me and our marriage, he's against it. He just wants to be free regardless of what's good for our marriage