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    Insatiably Curious... Com-passionate
    38 years old female from Rainbow's End
    Joined dxpnet on June 18, 2013.
    Posted by Rabbit
    My wife has a stronger personality than me I some ways (Virgo sun, Venus, and Mars), but all her weaknesses are my strengths and vice versa.
    I think complement is a better word than usurp.


    I used to think that he is the perfect complement to me. There is SO MUCH where one of us falters, and the other is strong. So the "usurp" is more his own placements perhaps overriding his other placements. From the chart experts, does this look likely?
    Posted by LadyOfRebirth
    Posted by VirgoFlirt
    some 12th housers are emotional brick walls for 'PDA'... If he has nothing good aspecting his rising or sun, then most likely he'll be that way.
    It's all about the way he sees you, remember? Some people really have a problem with emotional PDA in public (hands on), but all though they speak PDA to there friends about you.


    This.
    For someone that's been obsessing so much over the 12th house you sure as hell sound clueless about it.
    If his Venus is in the 12th house don't expect him to stay affectionate in public. Maybe he'll go along with it in the beginning but it's not the 12th house style . Especially when there's access to private settings like ones home.
    Why does it bother you so much that he doesn't want to be lovey dovey outdoors?
    My Virgo and I both have Venus in 12th, with me having my moon in the 12th as well. Virgo's are private people in general but with a 12th house don't expect your relationship to be full of PDA outdoors. It's not our thing.
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    Because I hardly get to see him, and then when I do, first thing he wants to do is drag me to some public place. I don't like them because I have to put on this facade of being 'proper' which he didn't used to want, but now does.
    I used to be able to lean on his shoulder and he would wrap his arm around me. Now he gets bothered by it instead, considering this too much pda. Heck, I grew up able to do this with my own DAD. Too much pda? That? Seriously?
    And kissing the top of his head to help him feel better when he was upset, but it backfiring as too much pda instead?