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    from USA
    Joined dxpnet on July 09, 2010.
    Not a virgo but had enough experience with virgo men, maybe i can shed some light on your situation.
    First off, I live in the Midwest where it's cold and snowy too. You are using the wrong washer fluid. There is washer fluid that is made for 30 below zero.
    Get that your washer fluid won't freeze up.
    Now about your virgo guy....it's been my experience most virgo men are mutable and have this need for control. It's not just control of you, it's more about control of their emotions. And when they feel out of control of a situation, they get angry and say things that are hurtful. They don't always understand that this type of behavior is hurtful to the person they are yelling at because to them, it's more about maintaining a balance of control and not having to deal with issues that take them out of their comfort zone.
    He also sounds very immature. When I mean immature, i'm not just referring to age etc. He's not very emotionally equipped to deal with anything that threatens his safe haven or whatever is realm of security is in his mind. Virgo's are constantly reworking thoughts in their mind to determine better, more logical solutions. When they can't fix something/someone or can't understand it, it makes them insecure. Some virgo men have more of an emotional capacity than the one you obviously are dating.
    Honestly, he has issues with his emotions. And you will never be able to change him or do anything that will give him more capacity to be empathetic. He has to grow up and act like a man. It's been my experience that some virgo men as yours can be manipulative and despite him being the irrational one, he acts as if he's the victim.
    You will NEVER be happy with this man because he doesn't have the capacity to love and cherish you in the manner you deserve.
    If you really want a clearer and more thorough window to understanding virgo men (not all but the ones that fit into your situation), read this link. You will see yourself in this. Hopefully, you also get some resolve and stand up for yourself.
    http://www.keen.com/CommunityServer/UserBlogPosts/MsLisaM/Virgo-Men/624708.aspx