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    Joined dxpnet on December 23, 2010.
    Always a good topic. And on the broader scope "why broken people get into relationships."
    Those who are broken and getting into relationships are only finding the same thing over again until they look at what is wrong with them and fix it themselves. I've heard a lot of people say things like "oh she'll heal through her marriage." And maybe that is true, but my goodness marriage seems hard enough as it is without bringing a broken, or two broken people into it who can't learn to just love themselves and others without playing the games or allowing others to disrespect them.
    I've been there in that brokeness...Once I started working on myself and pinpointing what needed to be changed and decided I didn't need to be with anyone, was when I began to heal properly and came into being with someone I could never imagine myself being with. And the change is noticeable. When two healed or unbroken people come together it's not only refreshing, it makes you feel confident and reassured in love because things are consistent and you don't have to wonder if the other person likes your or is right for you. You just know. It finally feels right.