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    Aries Sun ~ Libra Moon ~ Scorpio Asc. ~ Taurus Merc ~ Taurus Venus ~ Gem Mars
    34 years old female from California, United States
    Joined dxpnet on June 24, 2015.
    My sun is in Aries, and the one thing I know I can relate to in regards to this sign in the need to be free and doing my own thing. I also relate to the demand for respect -- other parts of my chart have seemed to make me a little meaker, more introverted when it comes to delivery, and speaking up for myself. I finally spoke up today, to this Aries man.

    I've been dealing with this fellow Aries since March of this year -- we met through a friend and there was instant attraction. We soon went on a date that lasted five hours, and all we did was talk and walk around a trail in a nearby park. Was a nice time, I really enjoyed myself and we talked about everything under the sun. He even trusted me enough by the end to share some of his deepest issues, and I had no judgment. I felt privileged to hear these things.
    Soon after, he closed himself off; I could tell he regretted being so open. It seemed to scare him. And after that, I didn't hear from him for about three weeks. Out of the blue he asked me to dinner, apologized for the way he'd behaved and explained to me that it was due to shame he felt sharing that and he couldn't face me. I told him I understood he fears, and I would never judge him. But that I would also like to be respected and not left in the dark. He seemed to get the message and we continued to date for a few weeks after, and became intimate, in all aspects.
    Then he disappeared again -- for a little over a month. I was pissed that he'd done this again, so I'd written him off. Until I decided that I needed to speak up for myself. I texted him last night saying I felt like he left me hanging again. He claimed the distance this time was him trying to 'sort shit out', and he didn't want me to 'be stuck in the middle of it'. I quickly shot back and told him that I understand that we all have things to sort out, but that doesn't mean he can't show me the respect and acknowledge me. So he soon said he knew where I was coming from and he asked if I would forgive him. My response?
    "Well, you've done this twice already so I don't have much trust honestly. But I'm open to forgive."

    He does have an ex that I'm aware of, who's gotten back with her other ex she dated after him. And I don't want to jump to conclusions because I don't know if they even still talk. But part of me is concerned that he was trying to see if this girl still wanted him or something, and is keeping that from me.

    Or is this just typical, secretive, close-off Aries behavi