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    Joined dxpnet on June 01, 2014.
    Ok...so admittedly, I've always been fascinated by people living the "lifestyle". Whether it was an open relationship, don't ask...don't tell...because we know one or both of us are cheating, swinging, etc. I've never had a threesome...I know, I know...shocking. lol I've been invited many times though. Anywho...me and the Scorp, we've discussed the possibility of being a couple in the lifestyle and the way that he imagines it is that we would host/attend swinger parties. I think that might be cool. It just might work. However, I'm not really into the whole group thing as much as I would much rather us have threesomes or for us to have an open relationship. I actually think the open relationship idea would benefit us best. Two things...I have no idea what the hell I'm talking about, because I've never experienced ANY of it and he's possessive so you know the open relationship thing is not going to fly with him, without some convincing.

    How in the hell do you talk to your partner about something like this? Like I said...we've had discussions, but never made arrangements or anything like that. OMG...I went to a friend's dinner party and I saw this chick who I know is in the lifestyle and I was sooooo tempted to hit her up after the dinner party. I literally had to like...control myself. I already know that she has a crush on me and boy did it show at the dinner party. smh

    Even if you're not interested in the lifestyle, please feel free to chime in...because I want to hear people's honest thoughts, feelings, vibe, and even if it's not your experience...have you known of couples who have successful relationships that are this way? I've already looked online at all of the supposedly celeb couples who are in the lifestyle and I've seen lots of info about it in another forum. FYI - a part of this is coming from my increased security in the longevity of our relationship. Like I said...I've had people try to pull me into the lifestyle for a while now. I've never felt comfortable and always knew that if I did...it would be with someone I love and trust...as a couple.