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    Cancer Sun Sagittarius Rising Capricorn Moon Cancer Venus Leo Mars The definit
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    Joined dxpnet on June 30, 2013.
    Hey everyone, I just realized that I have managed to break my Libra streak. After having to run in the opposite direction from them for a while. Which brings me to why I am here today; I have a Leo guy that I have known for over a decade. We met when we were both teenagers and then dated- he was more into me than I was into him but that was fine by him. We went on and off over the last 12 years, each dating other people until last year. Through this whole time he has ALWAYS been by my side when I was going through stuff, like the death of my dad- where he was with me night and day. Last year I had another crisis where he crawled out of the woodwork and was at my side. This time, maybe due to grief, we actually went a step further and slept together- we never had, he had never even seen me naked!

    After this, we casually slept together pretty much every chance we got. I then realized that I was developing stronger feelings for him but did not say anything as he had just started going out with some else. We remained friends and I casually dated 2 other people between then and now. Fast forward late last year, he broke up with his girl and my connections fizzled... and for the first time we were both free. Trouble started at this point when I realized that one of the guys I had been 'casually dating' (read: sleeping with) was a close friend, not only that, there were going to spend a lot of time together. And the way I found out meant he (the other guy) also had to know. The next time I met Leo, i told him everything, and while he seemed a little spaced out for a bit, the rest of the evening went ok.

    Fast forward to Jan, he recently invited me to his place for a party- where the other guy was there with his new gf. And Leo was EXTREMELY posessive. I am used to his posessiveness but this was more than usual. I am talking him wanting to kiss in front of anyone (I am not a PDA person and he knows it), openly telling me not to sit next to this other guy-because he doesn't trust him around me. We ended up going to my place where he slept till the next day. He openly claimed that he was 'peeing around me to mark his territory'. A couple of days that followed we talked regularly on the phone, sharing videos and links, talking about life partnerships and kids- all just casually.

    Then out of nowhere a conversation we had been having- hinting at going exclusive, turned into him saying he now doesn't trust women because the last girlfriend he had cheated with a business partner. And that he wasn't looking to have a relationship.

    This is not a problem for me, I am truly open to turning round and walking away- even thought that might be tough to do. My concern is whether this is a reaction to finding out about the friend thing, and/or whether this is something that he would ever get over? I am not beyond moving on, but with 13 years in, I would want to be sure. Anyone with suggestions on how I approach this (and him) I would appreciate it.