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    Cancer Moon in 12th house trines Neptune
    65 years old female
    Joined dxpnet on April 13, 2005.

    Two things ......

    1. so long as you're not sharing the happenings of your life with them, they are going to be pushy with you because they will believe that you think you are above them. which you do think because you are. Meaning, you believe you are above the drama and pettiness. So, for them to have this attitude toward you is normal.

    It's not going to stop though, they will continue with it because they are insecure, and you're ignoring these bad things and choosing not to participate is triggering their insecurities.

    What I can tell you in hope .... is that, eventhough it appears to you as if they are in contention with you, or maybe contrast is a better word .. in reality, they have great respect for you. Respect that you are able to rise above the pettiness, in where they aren't strong enough and fall prey to themselves.


    2. Sags have a blind spot, in where they cannot see a certain reality. They give with expectations ... even if they think they aren't expecting something in return, they are. And it's likely you cannot do anything about this, because like I said .. it's a blindspot.

    Look at your first few sentences ... you believe that because you are supportive of them, and that you fight for them ... then they SHOULD return the same support to you. And though it would be nice if every person would be considerate enough to return such things ... they don't.

    People don't have an obligation to return anything to you, or do anything to/for you.

    But, as a Sag, you have the mindset that because they SHOULD do it, then you cannot see past that, and will react to it, as if this expectation of them isn't irrational. Which it is irrational. I know you can't see it .. but, I said it just in case you can see beyond.



    I have never experienced this kind of sibling rivalry. However, my husband comes as a boy from all girl siblings and let me tell you .. they are the epitome of ridiculous when it comes to bickering, and over exaggerating everything. Just watching them carry on is so sad that you almost want to hand them a gun to put themselves out of their misery.

    And they are now in their 50's and STILL the same.

    So, in summation .... it's not going to stop. The only thing you can do is continue to take the high roads, and not let it bother you.