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    Aqua Sun-Moon-Venus-Merc, Virgo Asc, Uranus in Scorpio
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    Joined dxpnet on January 27, 2016.
    Posted by Notnuts
    Yeah....but I've seen other threads about Aquarius and all say that it takes slow and needs patience and persistence....which I have a bunch..so wondering if that's the case? Is he just not mature enough and needs more time to figure it out? He's at a transition point of his career right now and been stressed a lot, so doesn't know what he wants and is just figuring things out. (He's been a student for a long time since he just finished Phd this Janunary)

    I just wanna be next to him and be there for him when he's upset or stressed and needs someone to talk to..guess same thing as a best friend..

    I mean we're clearly not just friends with benefits..we apartment hunted together, went to furniture shopping for his place, and met each other's parents..etc

    Idk he's just confusing


    oh FFS. Look, well adjusted, interested, grown ass Aquas have no issues with boyfriend/girlfriend labels. The take it slow is for people who are dating for 6 months and start picking wedding venues. Or wanting to move in, or have babies, it is the permanence of those things that give an Aqua pause. While most couples are headed to the altar after 2-3 years, an Aqua can take 5-7. Lord knows the shortest time frame I ever considered marriage is 4 years.

    The current relationship I have, I KNOW he isn't going to put up with waiting for 4 years.

    The real question is, what do YOU want? If you arnt sure about a serious relationship then why are we having this conversation? It seems you are just comfortable with him now, as he is comfortable with you. So maybe it's a good thing you're leaving, get some perspective on what you want.