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    female from Lifepath #3 Soul urge #5 Personality #8
    Joined dxpnet on September 30, 2011.
    Posted by Redoctober2000
    OP, you are delusional!! What "friend" you haven't even met in person so how can you view him as a friend and 2) why come on here to waste our time?!! Smh!


    Do you have to know someone in real life to consider them a friend? I don't. I speak to another girl I haven't met & we call each other friends. Welcome to this century! Tongue Anyway, IDK, but maybe I'm not explaining myself well enough. But me & this guy were friends, in the internet sense. We talked about each others' day, etc... before things got muddied up by feelings. There's a lot that happened in the 9 months we've known each other- good & bad. I'm human, I can't be talking to someone this long without considering them...something. Like, I'm not even broken hearted overthis whole thing. I guess with internet dating you learn to adjust your feelings according to the situation. All I know is that I've not been acting like my real self here. I've been cutting him a lot of slack because at the end of the day I know it's not real. He could be telling me one thing & doing another, I'm not there to verify anything he says. So I've been taking his word with a grain of salt....& sometimes a headache tablet Tongue

    I made this thread because I was mad as hell. I needed a different perspective, which I'm grateful for. It may sound like I'm not listening at the moment, but trust me, I do take things into consideration...in my own time Big Grin
    Right now though, after the discussion I had with him yesterday, I decided to just be friends because he's not all that bad. This is a 1st for me, seeing the grey parts, instead of my usual black or white view. That may also change very soon though Tongue Consider this thread just me venting smile

    You've been awesome though. So feel free to yell lol.