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    "Hi there. Bored yet?
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    Joined dxpnet on October 17, 2013.
    Posted by Porcerpe
    I've recently made a male cancer friend who's such a breath of fresh air, he's super fun to be around and we'd always go on long hang outs and we ended up being really fond of one another on a seemingly platonic level. I'm aware that cancerians sometimes stay away from situations where they might end up rejected or risk feeling vulnerable and he even warned me he didn't want me to get "attached", but we both ended up doing just that. I have a partner whom I'm very happy with and he's never once felt jealous of my new friendship but as of a few days ago my cancer friend literally bailed on me and told me he didn't want to be around anymore because being friends with me would just cause drama he didn't want. I couldn't let go so quickly so I have been messaging him here and there and I know I might seem a tad clingy but i can't just let go of a friendship like that. My best friend of 8 years is a cancer and she's such a bundle of warmth, I thought he'd be the same. He seemed so kind. Tonight he implied his replies to me were pity replies so I told him I wouldn't bother anymore but I'm feeling really confused as to what to do and how to feel. I don't want to speak to him at all and my pride has completely set in. He told me he would hate not speaking to me but told me it was the best thing for him. I dont want to assume he has some romantic interest for me but maybe he does. Will he come around? Why is he feeling this way at all? He's given me absolutely nothing to work with and it makes me feel so alienated, the gut feelings I get from him are all telling me he wants to be around but he tells me he just doesn't care. It hurts me so much. Please help Sad(