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    Posted by Roana
    Posted by pinkbird03
    Posted by Roana
    Posted by pinkbird03
    Have you ever told him how you felt?


    I did and he seemed pleased. As well as became even sweeter whenever we would see each other... But his reaction was always more focused on what I said instead of saying what he likes.

    Once I told him you know the fact that you tease me and irritate me so much is one of the reasons why I like you so much. And he instead of saying what he thinks he said we should figure out what word is to describe that Big Grin (but like in a cute sweet way). I just don't get it. He is interested I think and yet something is stoping him from doing that one extra step....

    Ech...


    Cautious creatures. Mysterious too. I've been trying my best to understand them for awhile.


    Yeah... I know that for the first year he was kinda blocked of from the world in general. Than this year (well last one) he became less causious... Shows extra attention and so on... But sometimes I do feel like he is kinda testing me.. Like he says something and looks for my reaction... I wonder sometimes if because he is so busy with his work and so on he is taking it really slow and just figuring me out little by little. He knows that I am against flings or one time things, so I wonder maybe thats why he is extra cautious. He maybe figuring me out to see if I am person who would be good for him in long term. Because even at work we dont see each other often (like there can be weeks without seeing each other). So when we do see each other he seems very happy. But I always find him kinda evaluating not just when I speak with him but when I speak with other people. And as for some weird universal law there is someone who is from some company and so on showing interest in me. Like once I got flowers from a guy that I didnt even knew, other time guy from some other even planning firm offered me to sit with him and so on. And every time that it happens it's like he lingers next to me more, or tries to talk to me more. I mean he never does that for any other female coworker... So it makes me wonder if he does like me to certain extent... But just not enough...
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    A lot of us girls on here feel the exact same way. They like us, but not enough to want to commit. It's a struggle. Do you wait it out or do you move on? That's your choice, but not a guarantee he will ever want to date. I also feel like I'm being tested a lot. I think it's their way of understanding how we will handle situations.