Physical: I love tall, bearded men who are a little chubby. I think "dad bod" is the most physically attractive
Mental: Open mindedness, willing to learn, admit being wrong and teach me. Patience and caring but hella attentive
Spiritual: grounded. Prefer if he didn't believe or was not married to one religion. Introspective and self analyzing. Quiet and brooding but open to discuss his thoughts and feelings without fear. Compassionate and conscientious
Basically, a unicorn