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    Marine Sun, Virgin Moon, Centaur Ascendant
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    Joined dxpnet on May 08, 2016.
    One of the worst things you can do to a Virgo is rush him when he doesn't want to be rushed. They will often go radio silent for days/weeks, and that's because it's how they recharge their batteries. Actually instead of typing all that up again, here's what I said to another girl who was asking about Virgos.

    - Virgos are more sensitive than they appear to be, so don't humiliate them in public or make fun of them in a mean way. They like to feel respected and this is not the way to do it. Poking light-hearted fun is ok once in a while, as long as you don't overdo it.

    - they enjoy their "time away from the world" - it's when they recharge their physical/mental batteries & process thoughts and feelings - so if he's not answering his phone or responding to your texts in a timely manner, don't jump to conclusions. It's not personal like he doesn't want to see you or he's mad at you. He's just recharging. He'll get back to you when he's ready. Respect their need for alone time and it will go a long way.

    - Virgos love to laugh, it's a major stress relief for them.

    - they are very susceptible to getting trapped in a situation where they feel obligated to stay with someone out of duty, don't confuse that with "love". Entrapment breeds resentment, so don't make him feel trapped.

    - they communicate more through actions than words, so don't freak out if they don't say "I love you" back. They can also apologize through actions, like buying you a gift instead of saying "sorry".

    - their minds can be quite burdened by everyday stuff or matters of "the big picture" so make time for them to have a good whinge. It's another significant stress relief and you can really get to know them better this way, by having them just unload their thoughts. He'll really appreciate you for it (might even kiss you as "thank you" - I should know lol).

    - they don't like to mince words so if you ask for their opinion, you're gonna get the blunt version. And whatever you do, do NOT laugh at their beliefs. They take them very seriously.

    They can be very beautiful people once you get past their initial standoffish demeanor. Just don't be pushy with them, and don't tell them what to do. Merely make a suggestion and let them figure it out. To some people it might sound like too much work, but if you're capable of treating someone with courtesy you should be fine. Treat him like you want to be treated yourself.


    How do I know all this? I'm a Pisces with Virgo moon, and I'm more like a Virgo than Pisces. Also the man I love is a Virgo, as well as my best friend. So I got tons of virginal experience.

    Specifically to your predicament, him going radio silent is nothing personal. He'll get back to you when he's ready. UNLESS he stands you up, then kick his ass because you don't deserve to be treated that way if you haven't done anything wrong.

    Send him a text or voicemail, keep it brief, ask him if you're still going out tonight. Say something like you're looking forward to it but don't be too obvious.