Don't bring her flowers on the coffee date. That will freak her out. Expect it to take many many many months. If you're not prepared for that, maybe back off. 3 months, 6 months later and she could just flat out reject you. Honestly, they are not worth it.; Too paranoid, They won't bend for you at all. You will do it their way or walk. Basically, you have to throw away any self-respect you have into a garbage can. Your choice. I'm always attracted to virgos too. It's annoying.