Posted by Mahina
Just curious if any woman has ever been the pursuer and how it turned out ? I know some guys are shy and need a little encouragement, but the stereotype being let the many chase you/never chase a man....
A man chasing you is seen as "hes crazy about you, knows what he wants"
A woman chasing is seen as "desperate, or crazy"
Whats your opinon?
Any experiences?
I have no problem in initiating when I'm really interested. Then I like to lay back a bit and watch how it unfolds. I need a lot of time before committing, so I don't force myself on the guys. But when I get a hint he's interested too and just shy/insecure/whatnot, I know how to get what I want most of the time. It worked just fine with my Cancer ex. Walking on eggshells only thrills me as long as they keep it interesting enough.
Why should I consider myself desperate for it? Equal rights, equal efforts in terms of love. My logic.