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    My pronouns are Pay/Me
    Joined dxpnet on October 21, 2015.
    Posted by aquarius_beauty
    I wouldn't mind my SO making more money than me but I don't know if I'd be too comfortable making more than him. Not for my sake but for his. I want someone on my same level in some way or the other, to balance each other out.

    I feel like me making more money than him can cause deep insecurity in him. My ex had an issue with it when I was working and he had lost his job.

    And if he didn't have an issue, then I'd have an issue with it. I don't like a person who just settles. I like a man to be ambitious and driven (which is why I'm drawn to fire signs). Anyone who settles for a life of mediocrity is not for me.

    If however I see he is trying and he is working hard, then I probably wouldn't tell him how much I make. I'd lie about it and never let him see my personal accounts. Just so he won't feel less of a man. I would support him in his endeavors and be encouraging.


    Ambition and drive does not always = large income.