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    Joined dxpnet on September 26, 2016.
    I’ve read through the entire thread…This has red flags written all over it.

    -Request to change your number
    -Message guys immediately after entering into a relationship informing them
    -Unrestricted access to your phone at any time.
    -You rid of all your male friends except the ones your female friends are married to


    This is exactly the route my previous relationship took a turn for the worse-It begins with controlling manipulative behavior masked as security. He wants to feel secure and in turn he will provide the same security by abiding by your requests creating an illusion that you’re on equal ground. Sweetheart, you are confusing security with isolation. Eventually, a female friend of yours will do something that he doesn’t agree with or maybe even a family member. And he will request that you no longer speak to them because he felt this person has disrespected him. You will start to see a pattern as each freedom of yours is gradually eliminated and when the pattern reveals itself, by then it may be too late. Don’t let it reach this point.

    Tell me, how often do you allow him to go through your phone? Does he randomly pick up your phone? You mentioned you have no passcode on your phone-Has this always been the case or did he request you remove it to make him feel more secure? Make a list of each ‘small’ request he has asked of you from the moment you met him until now. You already have 4 from above.

    If you don’t change your number, is it going to come down to an ultimatum that he will break up with you? Assuming you have this discussion.