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  • Posted by 9waterlion9
    Posted by libragirl1988
    Posted by 9waterlion9
    Posted by Libracookie
    I would be pissed even if it was a friend. You got a ticket for him and he didn't even have the decency to call and say he can't come?

    Move on. You're clearly not a priority in his life.


    This. In my experience with aquas, when they are into you they will be direct about it...and trying to make it work will only push them further away once they're gone. It's clear if you ever had a chance, it's been long gone. Despite what he says to you, his actions are pretty much screaming indifference to your feelings. He's being a jerk and you have to decide if his occasional company is worth the emotional strain, or if you can detach yourself.


    I don't try to make it work. I was not seeking a relationship with him, I just enjoy hanging out. I am very detached/cool towards him. We even had a serious talk about the state of our relationship a year ago and he asked me if I wanted "more" and I quickly said no. A few months ago he was still asking me on dates and we went out to fancy dinners alone and such. But now something has changed.


    Then what's the problem? It seems like your taking it pretty personally/thinking about it a lot...if he's just a friend and it's just him flaking on you that's the only issue than call him out. If he cares about your friendship he'll cut it out.
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    You're right I am thinking about it a lot. I guess I do have feelings for him, but even if I did not, I'd still be upset as I thought we were at least friends. I think it bothers me that I cannot figure him out. I will call him out if he contacts me again. We have plans for a comedy show at the end of May... I have a ticket for him but if he doesn't apologize and change his ways I will take someone else. Thanks for the reply!