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    Cancer(Sun Mars Mercury)/Aries Moon w/Capricorn rising and Leo Venus
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    Joined dxpnet on September 10, 2011.
    Posted by peo
    @HighTide

    Interesting. My sag brother is with a very patient capricorn. But he still considers his sag ex-wife the love of his life. Patience is definitely a big thing. However the "unloading" depends. It's been a Sag that has been closely by my side during this breakup. In terms of my exes however it's partly true. But that's a longer story. I actually feel that my Sag friends are the ones who sustain friendships the longest. They're not necessarily good at reaching out a lot, but it's easy to pick the friendships up again after weeks of "sorry, I've been busy". Which is perfect for me, because I don't have to feel guilty about being with my thoughts somewhere else.

    What do you think about the cancer sun causes this attraction? I've never intentionally sought out any of the Sags in my life. They've usually walked up to me.



    I agree about the reaching out part, they normally don't do that unless you initiate it from the Cancer standpoint and that can make you feel like you care about the friendship/romance more than they do. Like I said most of the things they do aren't malicious and they don't even realize they are doing it. They aren't really trying to ignore you, they just want their hands in a bit of everything when it comes to life.
    You are correct however in that they normally seek out a Cancer as we have something they feel like they will need once they sowed their biggest wild oats. Eventually the stallion realizes it needs a peaceful place to come home to after complete burnout. That is why I think Sags/Cancers work the best when it starts out where they are both away from each other for periods of time working on life goals away from each other. Think of being away in boarding school the military or modern day truck driving. Alot of freedom in the beginning and later on once you get each others natures you are able to enjoy each other on a daily basis or the small time you get to share together.

    I also believe they are able to make friends easily so there isn't a longterm need just to have a small group of super loyal people like it is to a Cancer and we can't understand that off that bat. They prob go through periods where they have a certain group but then they will have a whole entire different group a years later who are totally different. Most of my group is 10/15 years or more of the same people. Sags seem to collect friends like baseball cards to put in a book for a rainy day yet its hard for them to put a poster on the wall of their absolute favorites like Cancers can do. They just have so many things they want to experience in life and want it to always be fun. If its no longer fun to them their spirit is completely broken and they lose purpose. That is where feeling trapt comes into play. That is why its important for a Cancer to create scenerios where your not always having to be around them, they reward you doublefold for letting their freedom not have to take a backseat unless its on their terms.