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    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
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    Joined dxpnet on August 24, 2011.
    Huh, didn't expect this to get resurrected.

    Well first, I'm going to point out the fact that you're ignoring a red flag from the start. He served time for a DUI? I know several people who received DUIs and none of them served any real time (aside from being taken into the station the night they were cited). What the heck did he do? I guess it also depends on the state's laws as well. You may want to see how many DUIs this guy has. This may point to a potential drinking problem.

    I'm assuming that he got cold because he knew he had to serve time for a while and wouldn't be able to do anything for a few months. When Leos have a personal/financial matter to "deal with", there's a chance we will ghost until we rectify the issues. Now on to your question:

    "Every Leo I have talked to sends me pictures of their body? HWHY? It ruins it for me because I do not care unless I asked for it or sent some myself. How should I go about approaching him? Or getting him to approach me and be direct. Due to recent events, I’m not good at opening myself up to men.So I'd like to show enough interest without being blunt."

    Well it doesn't sound like this guy's pic actually ruined things for you, since you're still interested. That being said, the best approach to get a Leo's attention is the direct approach. We respect it, we see it as a sign of strength which we highly respect. We typically go for confident lovers who know how to pick us out of a crowd. We also like to be pursued to some extent, just so we know that the other person has some conviction. Leo is a sign that knows hot to flirt and play, so when people are blunt with us it can help grab our attention.

    We also have big hearts and after we've been hurt at LEAST once, we'll guard it adamantly. We hate being taken advantage of because we know how gullible and generous we can be. So the easiest thing to do in your scenario is to invite this guy out.

    One thing to note is that when a Leo guy is interested in you, he'll make a point to invite you out. We're not big texters like some other signs and prefer the direct approach when communicating (phone calls or face to face interactions). Asking you about the music festival could have led to an invite, but it sounds like he didn't really try to push anything. Sending you a pic of his body doesn't really count either. It's forward, but still indirect. He may just like to show off his body to women, that's not uncommon.

    You can keep poking at him via social media, but the best route is the direct route.