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    Sun:01?? 46' in Taurus Moon:10?? 31' in Gemini Mercury:14?? 21' in Taurus
    female from New York City Baby!
    Joined dxpnet on August 12, 2009.
    The placements are irrelevant.
    To suggest placements are prerequistes for a FWB setup is absurd.

    The OP is in a mutual FWB contract, an agreement where she was the willing participant.
    She's a grown woman, no one coerced her into this setup.

    As for the Bull's actions, he is simply trying to preserve his current setup.
    The actions expressed here is"possessiveness" not jealousy.
    We discussed the difference beween these two in a previous thread.

    The mantra for the Bull is "I have"....followed by "I will."
    His motives are driven by 'ego' followed by a fear of loss...his actions are not driven by 'emotion.'

    How to tell if a Bull is emotionally invested?

    We FEEL first, We EXERCISE caution, We ASSESS for potential stability, We CLAIM you, and if there is a possible threat of losing you, the possessiveness comes in.

    We're practical enough to know that we can not claim what doesn't belong to us. He's not confused. He knows exactly what he's doing. He's not afraid of losing the OP, he is afraid of losing his current setup.

    This can be apparent in many unevolved hedonistic Bulls. "If it aint broke, don't try to fix it."
    Which means if you start out a s a FWB, you will 'exit' the setup as a FWB, only when he is ready to cut you off...not vice versa.