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    43 years old from Compton, Californina, US
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    Well as a Cap dominant female, this I need to see you'll fight for me is how I feel. So many times in my life I've been disappointed when it didn't happen. ? Oh my I will give you so many chances to show me too! Yeah 17 yr marriage... It appears I've met my match in a Cap male. We both do the same thing, ugh on both of our Cap Venus, but I suppose since I'm Sag sun & I am far more optimistic than he is, it is up to me. So I'm the one who fought for him, and then he fights for me. So weird. Ok I'm learning.. it is far better than having someone not fight at all I must say smile


    He is reflecting Your own Behaviors, creating an Opportunity to bring Harmony between The Two


    It seems the more I do, the more he does this. I guess cause he needs to see it. Well he initiates contact all the time to be fair except when we almost broke up. Like we both do this? I am so used to fire signs who will come regardless of what you do, lol. Actually a Virgo a long time ago too. But I suppose none of them had a Cap Venus & weren't jaded from life experiences ( like he & I are). I must say these Cap threads explaining what you do, male or female, are tremendously helpful in understanding behavior.


    Indeed, these forums are, even as Capricorn's behavior fascinates my Libran Mind [Sun & Moon are in Venus].

    So, this is like unto a Mathematical-Logical puzzle that needs to be Resolved - with Peace [Patience].

    Intellectually, stimulating.

    I suspect that she is doing some of this on pupose - as a test....


    It's not on purpose. Usually when I detach it's could be for the following reasons.

    1. You're constantly nagging me about who I am as a person, which makes me feel as if you are unhappy so I need to reflect on what to do.
    2. I realized I have some serious feelings for you.
    3. When there is something important that needs my attention that I need to focus on. It's like I detach to come up with solutions on how to get over an obstacle in my life. Could be friends, family, work, something financial.
    4. See 3 not being on my A game messes me up and puts me in an off mood.

    None the less it is a test and she's hoping you see her through it. Just give her the space she needs for now to get that ball back rolling with you. Be supportive when she communicates with you.


    This makes so much sense. I guess it's a test, but the confusing part for OP or anyone I suppose is when are you suppose to fight for you & when are you supposed to give space. It's like a tightrope at times.


    Obviously if it's 3 or 4 then just space. 2 would be just being there for me through this weird time, because I'm going to act weird. 1.fight for me. Anytime it's a dispute that involves the relationship fight. I recommend a little space initially so everyone has time to get their heads together. Fight for me though. especially if it's know you hurt their feelings. Fight. It's easy to tell because generally when people get their feelings hurt they cry, get angry, or get really quiet. If they are like I want to break up and they are super calm about it, then more than likely that's a wrap and can't no mountain move that mind. Generally with a capricorn female(at least myself) it takes a lot and I mean a lot before I get to the calm I'm done part. Zero emotion equals zero chance. Some clue on emotion =fix this shit.


    Interesting...

    All The Fights that we've had are very much Non-existent.

    Her fights are within her own mind...

    Me just project Rationality to help her, even to negate The Negative Self-Talk/Criticality within her being.

    But I love how this experience expands my Awareness/Consciousness...


    Sounds like you're doing good then. When insecurities pop up just reassure her. We are very self critical and tough on ourselves" pressure makes diamonds" kind of things. We will wear ourselves out doing it though. It sounds like you're doing great.
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    Me just seek to understand and empathize, even that I may better weigh the evidence.

    Indeed, she is very Self-Critical - which probably accounts for her ostensible periods of silence.

    I can feel/see her in hyperscrupolous, self-critical states of being. These states of being significantly affects our communication; these are negatively emotive trance states.

    But her Honor/Self-Responsibility is Sterling:

    "Will share when my mind is settled sorry it affected our communication which is very unfair to you."

    So, all I do is Be Still