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    Joined dxpnet on April 10, 2016.
    Posted by HermesVirgo

    Hello,

    Virgo male here. Mercury, 3rd House Virgo in my natal chart. I've been dating a Taurus female the last 2 years. We're on the verge of break up due to a few factors, but ultimately due to a relocation. She accused me of being manipulative in the relationship and putting her in situations of choosing me verses her other personal and social interest. We both have Sag moon, which seems to make our home life almost perfect. It's relaxed and calm, with a little excitement when needed. Sometimes we're even telepathic. However, we can get pretty tense and erupt. I blame it on the Sag moons.

    What's the best way to deal with this growing distance or should we try to stick things out ? I've never met a partner that's so relaxed and calm when we're on good terms. Our living together seems like 2nd nature.


    So you put "manipulative" in the title, and barely mention it in your post, then go on to mention other (perhaps equally legitimate) factors.

    Are you manipulative? Or is that complaint of hers something you're going to let go in one ear and out the other because it isn't convenient for you to address? Sorry to sound so harsh, but a couple of old friends of mine who were both Virgos were manipulative. One had a sagg moon too. He'd always just gloss over his flaws and to the contributions he played in the demises of his relationships. I don't find that way of being very honest or endearing. Maybe you should listen to your girlfriend and actually address the problems you cause. Your relationship might be a little better.

    Also, you mention both your sagg moons playing a part in your eruptions. Well, don't just acknowledge the "why" like you're excusing that behavior. Be better than that. Work on it. Change it. Don't just shrug and say, "It's the moons. Oh well..." And yes, she needs to do the same too.

    As for the distance, I've been married for 15 years. Our courtship lasted two years. All of which were long distance. Yeah, it works if you both want it to. If you both make the effort. Learn that, and learn it well.

    Otherwise; "Living ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough. Come back baby, when you grow up."

    Best of luck.