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    Posted by DonJohn
    Posted by Blue_Froggie
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    Posted by DonJohn
    Posted by Blue_Froggie
    Asian men
    1. Are Mama's boys and most girls don't want to deal with 1000 years of conditioning
    2. May not share household duties. Would expect everything served on a platter. White guys are far more likely to help with the chores
    3. Least likely to help with a new born baby
    4. Asian women married to Asian men are to take care of their husband's parents. Most if them loathe their in-laws and it isn't a duty most of them look forward to
    5. Asian wife can be disgraced for their sexual history. It happens a lot of times.
    6. Are expected to put other's needs ahead of hers. Most of them lose their looks and disregard their personal happiness after the first few years of marriage.

    These could very well be the reasons why white men are far more attractive to an asian woman.


    yeah but what if you don't have to work. think about that for a moment. this scenerio is only real if the man can hold up his end of the bargain meaning he can provide a nice shelter and living for the family without you having to physically work in the outside world. think of all the BS you deal with on a regular basis at work. it's a different level.

    It's a fair trade-up imo.

    I agree with most of that.


    You mean a scenario where the girl doesn't have to work? If she married a white guy, she still doesn't have to deal with his family. Not as much as an Asian guys family. It's a great deal for an Asian girl.

    Well most Asian girls think white guys are sweet especially when it comes to them, I really don't know how true this is but white guys are kinda gentle around Asian girls. They treat them better than Asian guys.

    Most of my cousins are married to white guys and I think there is a novelty in it. Everything seems new. Maybe that's the attraction?



    but with a white guy the asian girl will be expected to pay her 50/50 and her share of the rent etc. if we are generalizing here.

    so she will have to continue working.

    generally speaking traditional asian marriages do not require the female to work.


    since you are talking generally.

    it's a fair trade imo. how old are you? where do you live?

    I live in India where girls have to work and give their salary to the husband or mother-in-law and do the household work also. Or else convince the husband to move to a separate house. Or marry an NRI guy... Options are there but too many restrictions.



    then no.

    i only agree with the family tradition in the case where the wife just needs to take care of the family at home.
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    i agree with that too. if the woman works then she works but it doesnt need to contribute to the family unless she wants to because the man makes more than enough to cover everything. her income is only extra, I, too come from a traditional household upbringing, but we have family members that also do 50/50 or the traditional way, we have it all.

    @BlueFroggie, i didnt know that Indian families in India, if the woman works she has to give it to the mother in law and family, and also work in the household too? i agree she should work in the household and help, but also giving birth and raising children and working too?
    what's NRI?

    well, if she loves the family, then bringing in some money that will help is always good.

    and yes i agree with DJ that in white males, many of them, if you date them, and then marry, they expect you to pay 50% which is fine, if that's how it happens. Also, in many cases, alot of males (not just white males) they can't make enough so the woman will cover, depending on her income. Also, there is also the chance of economy where people get laid off. so when the man is laid off, the woman can cover by her income for a temporary time until the man gets a new job. Or vice versa.

    so in many cases that is how it is. because one income for one family is not enough. Also, many families here that we know in Europe, take out welfare money, which is money from government and also get subsidized housing, where it's a lower income housing and they pay for you and you pay maybe a small percentage. Plus extra food like having welfare food.
    so you see, lots of social services here too.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Subsidized_housing

    http://www.affordablehomeadvice.co.uk/low-income-housing.html