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    Posted by Ellygant
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    because my heart belongs to those who hurt me


    I'd be done based off this sentence alone.

    As much as timing in life is an issue and circumstances don't click like puzzle pieces and messes happen...that up there tells me that he is either:

    a) A masochist
    b) Very dramatic

    For a)...I have no interest in playing sadist to anyone's masochist and for b)...I really don't need drama. Life is exhausting and hard as it is, even when both parties try their best to make it work. There really is no beauty in fighting battles by yourself and no one to pat your back for climbing a mountain when you could just take a path.


    You're a Virgo though. Some scorps like a pinch of mellowdrama and masochism mixed in with undying love.Laughing

    Joking aside, OP is flowery with her words as well so I can see why she was so attached to this guy. It's hard for scorps to feel comfortable expressing that level of tenderness. They probably bonded over that. I don't read his words as harmful or baiting. Sounds like he's mentally trapped. She is too.

    That makes it a strong yet bad match. That breeds sentiment and attachment even though the situation is inherently unhealthy. You're premise is right though. The situation is clearly unfit for them both.


    Yeah I don't find him insincere. But there is a level of awareness missing here in how those words can impact a person. Total water venus bait...this whole situation I mean. Very foreign to me *looks away*.


    LOL.

    We have a hard time expressing directly where we are aware of our impact. I can only imagine how many deeply well intentioned messages I've sent out that were received as bait lol. And as controlling for that matter. Half the time I'm trying to control myself the other person thinks I'm trying to control them. That's caused a lot of frustration lol.

    When you're caught in that wave of of emotion though it's hard to see the shore, let alone the ocean. My heart goes out to the OP.
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