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    Joined dxpnet on February 24, 2017.
    Posted by Mutabull
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    Posted by Mutabull
    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.


    Ahh I knew it! I think it's the first one. Because the messages he sends me, you'd think I'm the only girl in the world. But me saying no was nothing to me. I was literally busy but I messaged to hangout again. Doesn't that count?
    I guess then me telling him to take care was double the rejection ?.
    If this were you, how to you see thing going?
    Thanks!!



    Depends on how much he likes you. When we really like someone, we can act childish when rejected, even if you offered another day. I would be butt hurt for a minute even though I would know it's not logical to be, lol.

    If someone sent me a "take care" message and I really liked them..I would respond saying sorry, I was busy but really do like you, etc. If I didn't like them that much or my interests had changed.. and I got that message I probably wouldn't reply at all, brush it off. So...maybe just wait to see if he replies. When did you send the last message?
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    Lool! Also knew it! I guess my gut feeling was spot on with this one.
    Umm I sent it a little over a day ago.

    Also I get the feeling he's not taking that message seriously. Like he thinks he can message me and I'd answer no problem. Little does he know, I can be just as hardheaded ?.