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    Librius: A Balanced mind
    Joined dxpnet on February 25, 2017.
    Let’s see how the things are with your Aqua man, from what you posted so far:
    1) Such a weird and strong connection i had there.. seems like he’s kinda like me too… (your opinion only, it was a conversation. You are two air signs, so from this point of view it’s always addicting)
    2) (I know i sound so crazy and obsessed) indeed I am.. but i didn’t show this side of me to him.. I act strong and nasty on the outside.. you know that kind of person who is not straight forward and insincere? (huge red flag for an Aqua)
    3) I would say i hate him and stuffs like that … (Aquas are turned off by this kind of behaviour)
    4) I bought pair of cupcakes and light the candles with everyone help…I looked so happy and blew the candles…I too felt like we are already couple… (you initiated an action from which he was not able to withdraw, as it was in a group setting)
    5) he never apologize and i always have to do the apologize all the time (there is no need to apologize, as you are the one starting the fights on purpose; you admit it – you are most of the time wrong)
    6) I invited him to join the Birthday party… but at the last minute he had to disappointed me like that.. he didn’t come and said he was having exams.. (him not coming speaks thunder words, he has other priorities or avoids giving you reasons to wish for him more. He came the next day to reciprocate your gesture from his birthday and because he knew it would hurt your feeling if he didn’t. Aquas don’t like to remain in debt.)
    7) . but most of the time he just ignores me.. and my existing.. he said “I ignore you because I treated you like an air.. but air is so important to me”… i was shock with that sentence… (don’t be shocked – Aquas ARE sincere! He wants space from you.)
    8) The letter – you got the silent treatment, because he didn’t want to hurt your feelings. He talked to you normally, no reaction. Uninterested in you in a romantic way.
    9) he arrived korea but never contacted me…
    I texted him alot but he never reply… he reply everyone else…
    he came back 2 weeks later… and now we just don’t talk anymore… he avoided me for good… (you are out)
    10) i'm his trusted friend... he never open up to me or had any deep conversation with me.. (Aquas open up about everything to their TRUSTED friends. But they don’t allow anyone into their inner circle).
    11) I only wish for him to understand what he is doing is hurting me so bad..
    I told him that.. and yet he chose to ignore me... (manipulative behaviour from your part)
    12) there was this time i was sleeping on a bed and happened to be eavesdropping his conversation with my friend and he sound like he is so worried about me... while in reality he just ignore the shit hell out of me ..
    I found him not straight-forward and insincere as me... (Aquas care about the people around them. You are a friend and class mate, so it’s normal.)

    In conclusion, it seems to me that you created an illusion of a relationship with a boy that showed his normal friendly nature. I see no clear signs that he likes you – constant interest, activities together, initiating from his part, confessions, time spent together on his initiative. Nothing! You are class mates, so it’s normal to bump into each other. He noticed your emotional nature, so he does the typical Aqua thing when trying to push someone away without hurting feelings – ignoring. If you were not classmates, he would have ghosted you. Instead, he is keeping you at arms’ length.