Posted by csdude55
Posted by LoveSeeker
You didn't hurt her so she dosen't need much space just few hours or 1-2 days
The story has kinda progressed since it started, but I've noticed that if I don't message her then she might send a message after 3-4 days. But it's always been to ask for my help for something. A month ago we would chat all the time, which made me think about her a lot and I was developing a healthy emotional connection. These sporadic "help me" sessions, though... not so much.
Posted by LoveSeeker
btw why she was dissappointed, did she wants to see you?..;did you ask her to meet after this?
Her messages have been very short and vague, but it was something like:
**** told me you came by yesterday
So I took it that she was disappointed she didn't get to see me, but she didn't SAY "I'm disappointed that I didn't get to see you". Know what I mean?
I'd invited her to meet up on Monday, after she messaged me. Keep in mind that we'd made plans over a month ago that she had to cancel last minute due to work, and I've invited her 3 times since, all to be canceled. This time, I had said something about her being busy, and that I'm always trying to get her to go out with me so she'd at least have a mental break. She replied and said something like, "I know, every time you ask I'm either too busy or working". So I suggested Friday, any time, and she said that she'd let me know if she could.
I initiated a conversation again on Tuesday and we chatted briefly; that's when she gave me the message about not getting to see me.
Wednesday I sent a message, she replied immediately, I replied back... nothing more. Until last night, when I messaged to confirm out date.
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If you went to a place that i frequently visit and you didn't tell me and i like you,yeah i will be upset but why you didn't ask her why ..did she reply to you now?