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    Joined dxpnet on January 31, 2017.
    Posted by nwzk
    Hi Librans,

    I'm a Leo who was with a Libra partner for 3.5 years. It was a strong stable relationship and we were both fulfilled in many ways through it. But he broke up with me in December 2017, saying that the feelings are no longer the same but that he now sees me as a friend and wants that instead. Although we tried to maintain peace after the break up, I, unfortunately, was still deeply in love and was not able to cope with my emotions of wanting him back and ended up being emotionally clingy and needy. Over the past 8 months, I've had to deal with depression, anxiety disorders with no proper support from him. He was never able to tell me that he doesn't love me anymore. He would only say that it was no longer the same.

    I was able to get a proper closure yesterday after all the months of hot and cold, cold shoulders and intermittent contacting. I texted him to tell me if he still loves me or not, yes or no, to which he replied "No, and I am sorry". I have had to finally accept that he fell out of love with me. He still says that he sees us as friends, and I have accepted to be just friends with him. I do know that when he makes a decision, it is after much though and that he can stay firm with it but at the same time, being Leo, I am still unconditionally faithful to him and I love him beyond understanding.

    I'd like to ask though, would a Libra male be able to stay friends with an ex without feelings resurfacing? Also, would the presence of a new love interest for him be of any threat to that? Seeing how the past 8 months were emotionally toxic and dramatic because of me, I do feel sad and a little hopeless that he may not ever feel the same way again but I do not understand why a part of me still wants to believe that love can overcome this.

    All your advise is appreciated.


    Libra moon here.

    Yes it can happen. But in my case it took me a lot of time to be here. It was quite emotional initially due to the Cap influence. But now I see the girl I had once feelings for as my friend. I talk to her as a friend not a past lover, don't even expect any feelings either from her end or mine. But it feels quite good to have a friend. I realized emotions might betray and give you heartache but friendships last and give you true fulfillment. It might not have the emotional high of a romantic relationship but I found that to be just an illusion/infatuation phase. On the other hand in friendship you will see the truth of the person his/her real face. After that it is on you whether you accept it or not.

    Take some break to go resolve your emotions first then only you will see the clear picture.