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    Cap Sun, Aries Ascend, Cancer Moon, Venus Aqua
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    Joined dxpnet on August 03, 2016.
    Posted by cappiegirl
    When we fall we really fall, if the other person doesn't reciprocate how do you manage to let go of your deep feelings?
    I am trying to bury mines for a month now but in no avail. There are other guys interested but I just know that this was the best connection.
    What is your strategy?


    First, I feel for you. I went through this recently and wish the experience on no one.

    Second, what worked for me was to focus on bettering myself- career-wise- spiritually- emotionally- etc. Doing this kept me very busy (i.e. distracted) and the benefit was, months later, I had new accomplishments, new experiences and new memories to build from.

    Third, know that this will take time-- and whatever time it takes you is OK. This is your healing process- not someone else. Don't judge yourself based on some other persons timeline.

    Fourth, don't forget to forgive yourself.

    I know it seems like "better" is a long way away but you will get there.
    I truly wish you the best.