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  • Posted by tiziani
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by tiziani
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by Palerio
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by Palerio
    @whatisthisallabout

    You're asking yourself the wrong question. You keep wondering whether or not the text you've received was mean... while what you should ponder about is: how the hell did I manage to annoy a guy to such an extent that he felt compelled to reject me 4 times in a single text to make his point come across.

    You know the answer, you can't be that clueless.


    I texted him to tell him that I was going to the library to get some work done and sent him a picture of the library. Just some small talks. I didn't get a response. Then, before bed, I texted him good night with some thoughts of how I felt things were going with him and that I understood if he was busy, or he was just not in the mood to talk. I really think everything I said to him did not deserve a "please stop texting me." I really felt if he was not interested, he could just say that he's not in the same place.


    As of now, what you're visualising it's just the tip of the iceberg. Try to focus more on what happened before your last 2 texts.


    I think the thing is he's just not interested. If you were interested in a girl, you'd feel happy to hear from her, even if she just texted you what happened during her day.


    That's not true for me, but those are your values.


    Are you saying you don't want to hear from the girl you are interested in? That's bizzare.
    I think he's just not interested.


    I wasn't trying to open it up to a question of whether he's interested or not but just pointing out that you're assuming he shares your values and you might be able to move past it if you just broke free of that.
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    I see. Yes, he and I probably don't share the same values. That's why when I got the message I thought it was mean but he probably just said it as is.