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    Posted by Rozaeon
    I don't understand the purpose of this thread


    I got the text message 14 hours later, after the last message I sent him. Therefore, I thought he was just being mean to have to ask me to stop texting him when I already stopped texting him 14 hours ago. I felt he could've just continuted his silence. Anyways, I am glad to learn that most people don't think it is mean so I don't need to continue thinking he was being mean spirited.


    Maybe he woke up 14 hours later and read all the texts.

    Who cares why. He wants them to stop.

    He's not telling you what to do- he's telling you what not to do. Meaning the ship has sailed. There literally is nothing you can do.




    Well, the main point was not why.
    I just thought it was a mean message to tell me what not to do. I have never got a message like that. I thought normally people'd just say "This is not working out. Best luck to you" or something along the lines.
    I don't think I said anything offensive that deserves a "please stop texting me"... anyhow, I realized that most people don't think "please stop texting me" is mean.


    What did you say?



    I texted him to tell him that I was going to the library to get some work done and sent him a picture of the library. Just some small talks. I didn't get a response. Then, before bed, I texted him good night with some thoughts of how I felt things were going with him and that I understood if he was busy, or he was just not in the mood to talk. I really think everything I said to him did not deserve a "please stop texting me." I really felt if he was not interested, he could just say that he's not in the same place.


    Well, you certainly can't expect that everyone will respond to you in the way that you think is correct. That is unreasonable. Now if he was being a jerk and abusive with his language, then that is something to be concerned with.

    But this guy was pretty polite and seems you are having an issue because he didn't do it the way you want.


    Well, that's why I posted the message on here so people can tell me if he was mean, and I am glad to find out that it was not the case.


    Do you have a trouble or struggle to understanding of someones communications & values?


    Some people, yes.


    Perhaps it's about time to learn those two of someone else languages to be clear for yourself a lot better.


    Why do you think I posted the message on here?


    I gave you the advice to make you realized for your error part to make it better. Unless all of this is validations in which that's why you posted of this?

    But serious note, putting here doesn't do anything. Now you realized of your error part to work on yourself atleast to learn the boundaries and communications.


    I do not understand why there are so many judgemetal people on here. I asked a question on here because I was not sure if it'd sound mean to other people and I wanted to understand. I do not appreciate you make all kinds of assumptions of me. peace.


    If I was assuming of you, I would've pointed out in very judgmental way (like, I was wondering if this is a troll thread with those naive playing going on). But instead I asked after observing all of your respond of something you're lacking with (like that you have difficulties to understand the communications). In which that angers your part and felt judgmental because that's what you are assuming (while I'm not).


    You said "Now you realized of your error part". Wtf is that? I consider the word erorr judgemental. I don't think I did anything wrong. I just felt I got a mean text message and I wanted to know if it sounded mean to others. There are guys out there who like girls being direct and speaking of their mind. I am NOT gonna change myself to impress a guy.


    You felt judged of the word "error" because you assumed that I'm making fun of you, is that correct? It's never about to make fun of you of your lacks. It's about to make for yourself better to be clear of those kind of message. Otherwise, you'll be wasting your time of that guy to figures out or keep it continuously on.
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    I don't see it as an *error*. It is YOUR judgment and I don't need that.
    I knew the mesaage that I got *means* to get lost. I was just wondering about the TONE of the voice. I do not see a need to make myself *better* based on your standard. Is there anything in my op asking about how to improve myself? No. I was just asking a straightfoward question to find out if I got a mean-sprited message.