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  • Posted by Koniuchaa
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by PhoenixRising
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
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    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by Palerio
    @whatisthisallabout

    You're asking yourself the wrong question. You keep wondering whether or not the text you've received was mean... while what you should ponder about is: how the hell did I manage to annoy a guy to such an extent that he felt compelled to reject me 4 times in a single text to make his point come across.

    You know the answer, you can't be that clueless.


    I texted him to tell him that I was going to the library to get some work done and sent him a picture of the library. Just some small talks. I didn't get a response. Then, before bed, I texted him good night with some thoughts of how I felt things were going with him and that I understood if he was busy, or he was just not in the mood to talk. I really think everything I said to him did not deserve a "please stop texting me." I really felt if he was not interested, he could just say that he's not in the same place.

    Hmmmm, yeah it did. You seem to feel the need to text anything that pops into your head. That is annoying. If you have a good banter going with a SO, that's different than getting to know someone. Ease up on the endless texting of...well quite frankly irrelevant bs. Why did he need to know that you were going to the library and the pic to prove it? He didn't reply. Then you continue to text him about your thoughts about how things are going...So basically you were blowing up the man's phone and having a one sided conversation....if he hadn't sent you the text asking you to stop it's because he thought you would have kept going based on the fact that you kept texting him even when he wasn't replying. I'm not sure how you can't see that.


    I did not text him anything after the goodnight text. I didn't text anything the next day. I don't think I deserve a stop texting me unless I was still texting him, which I was not.

    Okay, fair enough. You don't feel you "deserve" a stop texting me reply. It doesn't change the fact that you did get one. From what I am reading in this thread, it sounds like you are the common denominator though. Meaning, this is your pattern to address. So you can stay stuck on what you think you deserve or don't deserve or you can move past that point and figure out what you can stop doing to get text messages like that. Perhaps choose men that enjoy endless text about nothing, maybe stop sending texts about nothing, maybe start a blog where you can post pics and your thoughts about your day. There are a lot of choices to choose from...making a thread about what you deserve and don't isn't the best one though.


    I think I already addressed that. Some guys like it, some don't. So this thread was not about *why* I got this message, it was about it if was *mean*. I didn't think I deserve to get a mean text message, but if it was just a direct message, then it is fine.


    Yeah well we told you that it wasn't mean and then we moved on to other parts of your post

    That is also something you cannot control when you post on a public forum
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    That is true. I am just amazed by how everyone thinks they know the guy and tries to tell me what I should've done differently to make him happy. I think it is fascinating that everyone reads this thread as "Help, why did this man leave me? How could I have done differently to keep him?"
    Projection, maybe?