That usually doesn't work.... I think saggirl will tell you the same thing.
We distract ourselves until we get a free moment and then analyze the heck out of it. it bothers us even if feelings are gone.
I still feel bad about cheating on a real ex girl from 13 years ago.
There is a sense of freedom with doing what you want.... and answering that primal call feels great
sometimes we just need to realize we need to control it. be more civilized with relationships.
I'm 33 and single at the moment. I though I was done with the games at 27, now life threw me a curve ball. and I have to go back out there. its actually pretty scary. I don't want to be 35-40 randomly messing with women. and i wouldn't want a woman with children so I will be dating women probably in their 20's cradle robbing. grrrrrr.