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    Joined dxpnet on April 26, 2017.
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by teerytotsx
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    1. There is no relationship terms on the table.

    2. You met him off of tinder, notorious for fuck boi's and hook ups.

    3. He only texts you when he is coming to your area to meet up.

    This all points to him only wanting a fwb, nothing exclusive. Did you ask him if he is looking for a relationship??

    Cancers are notorious manipulators. He threw a fit cause you didn't respond right away, threatened to move onto someone else,...and you came running with apologies and your pussy.

    He played you like a fiddle.


    thanks for the last 3 replies - truly appreciative of it.

    before we met up, we had conversations about future, not with us, but he would ask questions like how long do i plan to stay here, where will i move to if i leave, etc. to me, that kind of insinuates that he wasn't looking for something short or not serious. we're both actually foreigners working in another foreign country so we are away from our homes and families.

    ive been hearing about cancers are known to be manipulators, but at the same time i can read into things too much. ive been told so many times too. i was dead certain that he was looking for a hookup or whatsoever initially, but bc my homegirl told me that it was obvious he is making the effort to come see me, i should just give him a chance. indeed im basically the only female he meets whenever he comes out here. it may seem silly for apologizing, but im also someone who hates animosity with others. either we clear up the air or ill keep sulking about it.

    recently, he does seem to loosen up a little, still doesn't initiate conversations but when we speak, he shares a very tiny bit more about himself.

    im honestly pretty clueless on how to move forward with him. either i just don't think about it and treat him as a regular friend and that that hookup was a mistake, or i completely see him as a fwb.


    None of that indicates he wants a relationship with you. Him 'making the effort to see you' just means he wants to see you, not that he wants to wife you up. And you said yourself that he always is super casual about it, saying he's gonna be in town for a hair cut...not saying he's coming there just for you. Your friend is telling you what you want to hear.

    Asking how long you plan to stay here, etc. doesn't indicate deeper feelings either. If he's looking at you as a fwb he wants to know how much longer the pussy will be available to him.

    Maybe he really does want a relationship with you. Your not going to know until you ask.

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    i guess ladyneptune is right. i should ask where this is going.

    funny bit, he actually tried to initiate a conversation yesterday. it was a failed attempt, but A for effort.