I test my Aqua too much and I know there is this voice inside that tells me to stop your doing it, but it is very hard to stop. I know the results are going to be disappointing because he can be clueless but I do it anyway.
For example my birthday is Saturday and about 2 weeks ago he mentioned taking me to a show in New York but I have already taken so many days off work that I couldnt. Tonight is the only night he can do something to celebrate my birthday because I can't very well have him over on Saturday because he hasn't met my son yet. I am expecting him to do something but i just have this feeling that he won't.
A bit of background he doesn't have a lot of experience with birthdays because he uses to be Jehovah's Witness he has celebrated his son's birthday and ex's birthday in the past but I just feel like he is going to over look my birthday completely.
How can I stop testing him but also get across what I want with out sounding like I'm saying "hey there you worship me please."